My boyfriend disapproves using a vibrator. Is it bad to
use it at all?
Thanks
Sounds like your boyfriend may be feeling a bit
threatened by that titillating sex toy. He may be thinking
that you are questioning his own sexual abilities, as if
he is not enough. Men like competition, but for some,
the vibrator is a contender they think they can’t beat!
You can help change this thinking by using it on him
first. Give your boyfriend a whole body wake up call by
moving the vibrator along his body from head to toe,
slowing travel toward his inner thighs and up closer to
his genitals. Apply a bit more pressure around his
scrotum and up and down the shaft of his penis. During
intercourse, hold the vibrator at the base of his scrotum
as he thrusts. This should give him a pretty powerful
orgasm!
Another option…suggest some mutual masturbation,
where you both watch the other self-pleasure. Use the
vibrator on yourself. Men love to watch and once he
sees how hot you get, he won’t be able to get that
image out of his mind! He’ll realize that the vibrator can
be an extension of himself rather than an additional
bedfellow competing for your pleasure.
use it at all?
Thanks
Sounds like your boyfriend may be feeling a bit
threatened by that titillating sex toy. He may be thinking
that you are questioning his own sexual abilities, as if
he is not enough. Men like competition, but for some,
the vibrator is a contender they think they can’t beat!
You can help change this thinking by using it on him
first. Give your boyfriend a whole body wake up call by
moving the vibrator along his body from head to toe,
slowing travel toward his inner thighs and up closer to
his genitals. Apply a bit more pressure around his
scrotum and up and down the shaft of his penis. During
intercourse, hold the vibrator at the base of his scrotum
as he thrusts. This should give him a pretty powerful
orgasm!
Another option…suggest some mutual masturbation,
where you both watch the other self-pleasure. Use the
vibrator on yourself. Men love to watch and once he
sees how hot you get, he won’t be able to get that
image out of his mind! He’ll realize that the vibrator can
be an extension of himself rather than an additional
bedfellow competing for your pleasure.
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