Understanding Sex Addiction Chapter Preview

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Chapter I: Introduction

You are not alone. I say those words first because I want
you to know if you are wondering if you are sexually
addicted or you are wondering why, despite losing your
family, job, spending lot’s of money and/or risking your
health you still find yourself glued to your computer
searching the internet for that one perfect erotic image, or
perfect sexy escort---you are not alone!

Chapter II: If My Wife would do _(blank)____
than I wouldn't _(blank)___ …. and other
untruths you tell yourself

On, and on, and on the excuses go. It is everyone else’s
fault. And some of those reasons are valid complaints. But
they still don’t explain why you can’t stop. At the very most,
the complaints are just reasons you give yourself when you
try to stop, fail, and want to convince yourself that you didn’t
want to stop in the first place.

Chapter III: When Sex Hurts: From the Pleasures You
Seek to the Shame You Endure

...I’ve talked about how the problem is not about other
people, nor is even about sex, and it is not even necessarily
the behavior. Let’s face it. There is nothing wrong with
viewing erotic photos or watching a sex filled DVD. There is
nothing wrong with masturbating....

....There is a saying in addictions lingo about “hitting
bottom”. Bottom is different for each person. But, in
general, it is when you realize how exhausted you have
become and that you have one of two choices—give into it
or get out of it....

Chapter IV: Lovers and Spouses: Read This!!

...He may try to lead you to believe that you have
contributed to the addiction. He may try to tell you that if
you enjoyed sex more, or had sex more, or wore sexy
lingerie more, lost weight, gained weight, etc., then he
wouldn’t have to go outside the relationship. These are lies
he has been telling himself to justify his behaviors, to help
relieve his own guilt and shame. Don’t buy into them. It is
not your fault.

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